I received a very interesting email from a man regarding how you can deal with what he refers to as “today’s new breed of woman”– sexy ladies who expect men to be subservient and submissive.

I get a great deal of emails on this topic, many from men comparing American women to foreign ladies, complaining that American ladies are too domineering to deal with. Is this a fact?

Does “today’s sexy women” actually want a wimp for a man or is there something else going on? Read on to find out the surprising answer.

“I have read much of your information with interest. You constantly emphasize having authority with women. But my question is: how about today’s dominant sexy women? A lot of ladies of today are dominant. They expect and require a man to take the submissive and subservient role.

To these new breed of ladies, a dominant man is anathema! These appealing, sexy women expect a man to play ‘second fiddle,’ even to cater to their each and every whim. It really is their way or the highway!

But how do I approach today’s dominant women without appearing too needy? How can i get on intimate terms with them? I have recognized some dominant ladies, but I have never gotten intimate with them. They’ve used me as a play toy, a personal chore and errand boy at their beck and call with nothing to show for it in the end. Cheers, Tom.”

Tom is misinterpreting “dominance” here. Today’s women absolutely don’t want a submissive, subservient man. They want a guy who defines authority, and acts like a MAN. The problem is, there are so many wimpy, fussy, whiny little boys out there, that are rather desirable.

Sexy women who are approached 5 times a day are forced to develop a testing mechanism to separate the “men from the boys.”

Imagine being approached five times a day by guys, along with the time and energy it would take to deny them all?

What they do is that they test men by seeing if they are going to act submissive and subservient. The minute the “man” does, he’s labeled as a coward. The lady will continue to see how far she can push the envelope, hoping and praying for some display of authority.

However in today’s society where men are raised to be pansies and whiners, sexy women frequently never get it then grow to be more and more frustrated.

However, whenever you demonstrate authority early on, and declare it clearly in a naughty, funny, yet firm manner in which her tests are for wimps and whiners, a fantastic thing occurs. She’s attracted to you and likes the authority you’ve given her.

Look, I have met and dated plenty of sexy ladies other guys consider “dominant”. In speaking with and spending time with these ladies all of them say the same thing, “I just want to find a MAN.”

Are today’s women a bit more assertive? Sure, but all that suggests is that you as a man, be more assertive and authoritative in return. Sadly, most “men” today go the opposite way, putting on the diapers and crying for mommy because a woman was “mean” to them.

Most likely probably the most misunderstood subject in today’s world is authority. Quite a few men mistake authority for abuse of power, or are uncomfortable with the subject entirely.

The truth is, authority is merely the art of getting other people to want to do what you would like them to do, and can be learned by any man. The bad news is, there are a small number of places to learn it. The good news is, I have a system that will definitely teach it to you, and I highly suggest you get your hands on it.

I have by no means met a sexy woman, no matter how assertive she seems on the outside, who doesn’t respond to genuine authority by a man. I especially haven’t met a guy who lets her know he acknowledges her tests.

In my mind, there’s no better opportunity than when you meet the “new breed of woman”.

Whenever you know how to deal with her tests, and demonstrate that to her, she will do anything to make you happy and keep you happy in return.

Why? She knows her chances of discovering that in another man in today’s “Age of the Pansies” are somewhere between slim and none. The only way you’re going to pick up women is by learning how to pick up women so you may successfully date women.