While the question of making trouble is asked more by women, men apparently are much more prone to actually act on their instincts than women. We entitled this article ‘Making Trouble to Get Your Ex Back’ and it suggests an unwelcome involvement in the life of your Ex, to the point of extreme. Because forcing yourself on your Ex or their friends can have emotional and even physical dangers and illegal ramifications, it cannot be taken lightly. It is for this reason that we believe there are more men guilty of actually getting involved negatively in the lives of their Exes. A thorough understanding of these principles might, indeed, help to get ex back. If you are trying to recover a broken relationship, your chance to win your ex back, will be heightened by knowing all these things.
Our perspective on this issue and phenomenon in our culture focuses on what we believe are two, separate degrees of same. The first category is simply one of being omnipresent – i.e. being around all the time – with the resulting effect of ‘pushing yourself’ at them. While typically annoying and counterproductive, some people actually believe that it will yield positive results if they are just ‘around more’.
Assumedly, the evidence of study and survey reflects the opposite outcome. People who become a nuisance in the life of their Ex rarely get them back. Even the least intelligent or observant Ex will see your over-involvement as a clear indicator of the life to come if they agree to your advances.
The other – and more alarming category of unwanted advances or involvement – is what we refer to as the ‘if I can’t have you’ category. It refers to both over-involvement and ‘predatory exclusivity’ to the point of threatened physical harm. Physically threatening your Ex’s other social contacts and ‘Dates’ falls clearly into this category. Our conclusion, therefore, is that any forced over-involvement in your Ex’s life that is unwanted to the point of Threatened Assault Misdemeanor is prima fascia evidence of both dangerous and illegal activity. If you are attempting to get ex back from a breakup caused by the absence of these things, take heed.