Have you recently broke up with your spouse ? Or is it that your relationship seems like it will soon Be over ? Do you find that it is very hard to please your partner regardless of how hard you try?

The truth is, you will feel tormented, miserable and distressed but you are not alone . People fall out of relationships everyday , but the question is, do you want to your relationship to go down the drain ?

So how do you mend a broken heart and save your relationship?

One of the main reasons why some couples find it hard to mend a broken relationship is because they are filled with self pride . Now pride can cause you to do a lot of things that can worsen the situation.

1. Pride is not wanting to answer the phone when you know is your partner calling

2. Pride is when you try to revenge your ex for what they have done to you – This involves:

* using hurtful words to your partner
* Going way back to things your partner have done a lone time ago etc

Pride can do a whole lot more to separate you from your lover so lets not dwell on the bad but rather lets go to the solution.

Before you go any further , take a deep breathe, relax and reflect on some of the good times you and your partner had together. How he or she made you happy, the smiles that he or she always put on your face and the comfort you feel just to have your partner’s arms around you.

Lets Find Out How To Mend A Broken Relationship And Repeat All Those Good times

When most couples have a fight or just broke up , the first thing they tend to do is to make a phone call or send a text message to their partner . While this may work sometimes, there is a more effective way of sending a hand written letter to your ex.

Think about it, how touching it would be to receive a hand written letter from you partner pouring out his or her heart to you for your forgiveness? A hand written letter will mean far more to your partner as you took the time out to on paper and mail it to them.

But What Should You Put On The paper?

What you are about to hear is may not be what you want to hear, but it has worked thousands of times before and is still working. Here is what you should write:

Agree with your partner by telling him or her that they are right You want then to know that you are very sincere and that everything you write is coming from the heart. Let your partner know that your love, respect and appreciate all the good things hime or her have done for you in the past Now here is the turning point:

You are going to let your partner know you agree to go on with the break up. What did you just read? Yes you did! Let your partner know that you are very sorry and you want them to be happy and if breaking up will make them happy then so be it.But this is not where it ends, this is just the start.