Are you tormented inside ’cause you just want to get back to him really bad? If you are looking to get back together with the man you care about, having a game plan thought out will help you win him back more effectively.

Since all you can probably do is think about him non-stop, you might as well put your thoughts into some future steps, instead of dwelling on past mistakes.

The first step in trying to get back to him is figuring out why exactly the break-up happened. Even though, you may have an idea of what occurred for him to pull away from you and the relationship, you won’t truly know until you really think it through.

Perhaps you weren’t honest with yourself, and subsequently with him, with what you really wanted or needed in your relationship together. Or maybe you feel you were shouting out your feelings loud and clear, but to no avail.

The second step is to cut off all contact with your ex. You are not ready. He won’t be ready, or willing to get back with you yet. Basically, the relationship needs time to heal, by both of you working on your own selves.

Especially if he was the one to break it off with you, you need time to heal. You cannot give yourself what you need, if you are pursuing contact with him. You are doing yourself a disservice, ’cause you are not putting your self-worth first.

The third step in getting him back is to finally feel quite empowered as to who you are and how much you deserve. You have to know you are worth it, and you won’t put yourself any less than a priority.

When you fully and truly have this positive belief about yourself and new standards of expectations, you will go forward with a new attitude. Your ex will be intrigued.
If you really want to get back with your ex, you have to realize that your new mind-set is a long term commitment to yourself. It will not happen overnight, nor will you be flawless with your execution, but continue forward one step at a time. Don’t look back.

When you are feeling really good about yourself, and not depressed, is the time when you can go forward and get him back for real. As long as you harbor negative emotions within you, you will have a difficult time getting him to come back. Only when you truly feel happy, and he knows it, is when you will have the most success in getting him back forever.

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