Even the most impossible thing can be mended in many ways and your marriage can be just one of the many things that can be looked over and find some solutions to in order to save it. It does not mean that if your relationship is going down the gutter, you can do nothing to save it. There are many spouses that were one the edge of losing everything they felt for each other, but they have risen up to the surface and refuse to be drowned without fighting back. So are you ready for the answer to the question: how to save my marriage?

I know you have committed yourself to your spouse. Was it just five years ago? How about 10 years ago? Was it 20? You might not be even counting the years. What is really important though is not so much the length of years together but rather the quality time together in those years. I can guarantee that you will agree on this point.   In the long run, it is not important how long you have been with each other but what matters is how deep you are committed to each other.  

Maintaining a honest communication with each other is a very imprtant factor in marriages. This is because if you can honestly talk about what you feel. If one partner is honest and the other is not then it wont work! Remember, it always takes two to tango. There can never be a marriage if there are no partners working with and for each other.  An open line of communication between spouses will solve even the most complicated problem there is.

One of the best advice to save marriage is to not blame him/her about what happened. You both have contributed mistakes into the relationship , which really piled up and dragged you both into a situation that you do not like to be. Marriages fail for various reasons. Two of the most common reasons are 1. the pointing of fingers and 2. the lack of communication. It would be difficult to heal something that has already gone deeper than what you could have wanted. Therefore, before things got any worse, you need to talk about it as soon as you are free and calm to talk about the problem.

If you really want to know how to save a marriage, you have to answer the question “do you still love him or her” before you decide on things that can make or break the relationship. If there is still love between the two of you, it would be best if you try to work things out. It is really worthy to fight for something you believe in.